With this being Mother’s Day I have been reflecting all day on the mother God chose to give me. He could have not planned my life at all or planned for me to be placed in a horrific situation. Instead He created me and placed me with the most loving and Godly parents a person could wish for. There are not enough words to describe the humbling gratitude I feel when I think of my parents and my mother specifically on Mother’s Day. My mother’s own mother passed when my mother was just shy of turning 12 years old. It was an unexpected death and my mother didn’t get to say “I love you” one last time or good bye. I truly can’t imagine what she went through yet God got her through without an ounce of anger and bitterness. There have been many situations in life that I have witnessed her “survive”. She always continues on with the joy of Jesus radiating from her often as bright as sunbeams. The unexpected loss of my father being the most recent trial she has endured with tremendous strength, grace, and joy. Having been a wife for 44 years and a wife of a pastor for the majority of those years her world changed dramatically within just a few moments. As a retired school teacher she now was left without the “jobs” of wife and pastor’s wife as well. Instead of folding up into a lonely ball of despair I watched this amazing women continue on with her life of selflessness. She dove right into the lives of my sister’s and my children. She began volunteering at the elementary school my sister works in investing her time and life into the lives of other children. She began volunteering at a special ministry of our church that provides counseling and benevolence help. She partnered up with me in our churches Awana program and helps 3rd and 4th grade girls memorize scripture from God’s Word. My mother is truly the most selfless person I know. When it came to clothing or her needs she always made sure my sister and I had what we needed before ever buying for herself. In fact she still has some of my old sweaters from when I was in high school and still wears them. Happy to take the “left overs”.
My mother is a true living example of motherhood and how God intended motherhood to be. Her life has taught me so much more than any schooling of any kind ever could. She is the most beautiful, loving, God fearing, strong woman that I know. I will be eternally grateful for my sweet little momma. What God didn’t give her in stature he gave her in a giant sized heart and faith!!
Proverbs 31:28-30 “Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her. ‘many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.’ Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.”